Nasty bitter

[Bugaboo]

Not to be rude but how do you not have time to shadow a child? What kind of activities are you doing with the other kids that keeps you so engaged as to not be able to watch all of them at the same time? I know it can be a challenge to gear your eyes toward one specifically but is not our jobs to ensure all the kids are getting the best care. A child biting is usually out of some kind of frustration from my experience. I think as effective providers it's our duty to at least try help the child through this experience.

My understanding of "shadowing" is following one specific child around (in this case the biter) CONSTANTLY. I do not have time to do this because I have six children in care. I am busy prepping meals/snacks, dressing kids to go outside, changing diapers, assisting in the washroom, wiping noses, table activities, story time, circle time, and supervising ALL the kids during free play. So no I will not shadow a biter. And I won't tolerate biters in my day home simply because my parents will not tolerate their children being bitten.

[Skysue]

My understanding of "shadowing" is following one specific child around (in this case the biter) CONSTANTLY. I do not have time to do this because I have six children in care. I am busy prepping meals/snacks, dressing kids to go outside, changing diapers, assisting in the washroom, wiping noses, table activities, story time, circle time, and supervising ALL the kids during free play. So no I will not shadow a biter. And I won't tolerate biters in my day home simply because my parents will not tolerate their children being bitten.

I see your side and yes it is very hard work to do. As I also have 5 kids plus my own. I just chose that method as how else can you find a solution to a problem if you don't see what the motivation is. I know it can be difficult for people to hear that there child was bitten but I have very understanding parents and I am extremely greatful for that. My bitter had also already been with me for a whole year and I'm happy I persevered as she is a very fun loving child.

Cheers