I'm lactose intolerant and have been since a pre teen so I know it doesn't feel very good. I break the rules and sometimes will have ice cream, but I pay for it later.

My little one with the poops during the naps was on special formula as a baby and always had issues with throwing up. Could be it and I've talked to mom but she doesn't seem to want to try it. Odd.... she's a great mom and they are not the type of parents to just say "oh well" Maybe I'll try switching his milk to after nap and see if naptime is a little more delightful.

He's almost at the age where I need him in the big kid nap room with the other kids, but I can't put him there if he's going to scream murder an hour in.

Thanks for all of your feedback.