I sent an email back saying that I was left feeling uncomfortable and would apreciate know what the issues are beforehand so that I am prepared to discuss it. My feeling is that she wants me tobe off guard. If Idont hear back from her today, I will ask dad flat out tonight. I have a feeling i know what part of it is because i challenged her on something and she like to be or at least think she's controlling me. its the past even that has me curious.