Glad you have some closure Gramma and can move forward in a more positive direction ~ one of the benefits of being self employed is that we only have to work with people who bring us JOY ... if a client is a PITA in anyway we have the freedom to replace them with someone who is a better match .... this was a promise I made to myself when I chose to work from home ... my goal was to create a healthier work life balance and that means NO STRESS ... I made one 'error' in judgement my first year and enrolled a high maintenance client ~ nothing termination worthy cause they paid on time and respected all the rules of the contract we just did not share the same 'values' and that made their children a tad more work than my other clients .... but moving forward I am very choosy in enrollment and try to weed out anyone who is not a perfect fit from the start to avoid those kinds of things!