i have one just the same but we are constantly working on it and mom is totally on board. thanks to all the great advice from other providers on this board I am keeping a consistent schedule. Personally i would never terminate my little non sleeper because i just adore her and yes she is loud and can sometimes wake the kids but she has good days and bad and is slowing learn to self soothe and go back to sleep or amuse herself. it was suggested to me to leave a few toys with her for when she woke up early. if this is your only issue, i say stick with it and invest in some earphones. thats what i did on the really bad days.