Thanks Reggio for all the info I'll definitely be looking into those.

He was been with me since July and is already enrolled in PT Kindergarten. I asked him yesterday if he behaves like this at school and he said no. So I asked him why he felt it was ok to act like that in my home and he didn't know.

As weird as it is the kids really don't care when he explodes so we have just been dealing with it the same way I mentioned above since day one. I don't know...just seems like we've hit a wall with the mom because we both do the same thing (as far as I know) and it pretty much has just stayed the same. However, I might add that when his 10yr old brother is around he is a completely different kid (has no control) and then most of the time when he's not around he's a complete sweet heart. I dunno...

I think they are leaving when schools is over but regardless something has got to be done until then.