Oh hon that sucks!

One thing I have noticed over my years is that if a child was doing pretty well in the transition visits when on her own and than takes a 'nose dive' to screaming once they are in the program it is often because the introduction to group care germs has resulted in a ware and tear on their immunity and they are getting sick with something and just feel like crap combined with the stress of the new environment it just gets overwhelming ~ kids like that who were doing well and regress they usually end up having an ear infection or something not so glaringly obvious at first and that is the reason for the flip to the unhappiness ... once we figure that out and they get treatment and feeling better they quickly return to adjusting back into the program again .... hoping that is the case here ~ not that you want them to be sick but that it means there is a quick fix around the corner that if she can get treatment for whatever is causing the pain/screaming than she can return to doing better for you!