UPDATE: Yesterday afternoon DCG took a pen and drilled it through our art easel. I made her tell her mother what she did and she told her....proudly. I told the mom that I am at a loss as to what to do anymore. I was then informed that she has been acting out at home badly as well, gee...thanks for the heads up. And she doesn't know what to do either. I will see if she comes up with a solution this weekend, if she doesn't improve next week. I'll give her notice. When she acts out, my daughter tends to act out on those days too...she feeds off this girl. I never expected running a dayhome to be sooooo stressful. Thanks for your advise ladies. I wish I would have found this forum 8 months ago!