Kind of a vent- parents change terms of care- Your thoughts?

[BlueRose]

but i know she doesn't have back up care so i felt bad backing out of the agreement with only a few weeks left for her to go back to work. I told her i would do the best i could but if it gets to be too much then i will let her know.

1. its not your fault she doesn't have back up care. its also not your fault that the dad changed jobs. that's there problem. they need to work out how to make it work for you.

2. you are not backing out of the agreement, she is changing it, therefore the agreement is voided. you have the right to say no without feeling guilty.