Thanks everyone - well u made it through my first day with him lol. It was fine. Turns out he's more the unhealthy kind who eats cheese a lot. Mum wasn't too concerned with butter or even jello as he has eaten it before! More just they don't like to kill animals for their own means- but according to dcb he has eaten meat that died of old age I will have a word with the butcher in sobeys see if he has any that died of natural causes. I just gave scrambled eggs, whole wheat toast, and beans as all my kids love this anyway. Plus he only comes 2 times a week so I think I can make this work as we don't always have meat with each lunch!!! And he was a lovely little boy no trouble at all!!!!!!!! (hope that lasts)