I hear you. It's just my dh is a bit of a clean freak. I really don't know how we ended up together sometimes! LOL. Anyways, he does help around the house but I'm just trying to do better in terms of housekeeping so I can alleviate some of the tension that arises when he comes home to a disaster. I just find it tough to do when dcks are here and the last thing I want to do on the weekends is clean!