My daycare is separate from my house so the kids are not making a mess but my house still gets to be a mess because in the evenings I'm tired and the last thing I feel like doing is house work. I do the bulk of my laundry in the evenings during the week and then do the last two loads on Sunday. I usually do the bulk of my grocery shopping on Thursday nights ad then just getting fresh fruit and bread on Sundays ... The only thing I do during nap time is food laundry or prep dinner.... I have a cleaning service come every other Friday that cleans my house and I just do a quick vacuum of my kitchen every other day ..... I am not a neat freak and it is what it is