3 year old having difficulty adjusting...parents want to pull her out?!?

[momof4inpink]

what are they planning to do with the little sister? keep her with you and bring the three year old to the old dayhome? Sounds to me like they moved to a new daycare because when baby two came the current one didn't have room? am I right? if thats the case, I am very sure they have the second one on wait for a spot at that same daycare and I am sure they will pull her as soon as that space opens up, or they could be waiting for younger sibbling to reach certain age to fit into this other providers opening and will again, leave you high and dry. This same thing happened to me, my advice to you is, let these ones go and advertise for the open spots right away. in the mean time, I think i would ask parents straight up, if they plan to remove the younger child as soon as room opens in the other day care. just get it out in the open.

No I know that the old dayhome closed, so they really needed care for both of them. I realize that both dcg's are needy as mom admits, that isn't my issue really. I have no problem showing affection to anyone of my dc kids. Its the way I feel that this 3 year old is basically manipulating her paretns in believeing that I am giving her poor quality care yet her younger sister has adapted very well after she has gotten over the inicial shock of change. All my other daycare kids are happy, but her.

[daycaremom9]

My biggest pet peeve is when parents allow their children to manipulate myself and them. They're basically allowing a child to decide what is right for them. How on earth can a young child know what is good for them. Shouldn't the parent be making that decision? Ugh!