This is an oppertunity for your daughter to learn some very important life lessons, don't miss out on it. Just like with calgarymom's comment, it was a good time for that Mother to explain to the crying child.."how neat it is, that her toy (she didn't even play with any more) was going to go to a house filled with little kids that would love it and enjoy it! How nice to be able to share our things with others. I would also tell my child I was so proud of them for being willing to let those toys go to all those other kids, they say "thank you". and give her a big hug, for being so nice to others. lesson learned.