mom and i have discussed this and she tries not to use it put her to sleep but she overthinks it toomuch in the night and convinces herself that maybe she's hungry. Either that or she does it because she is completely exhausted and needs the sleep herself. she has a fairly high stress/emotional job. normally i would be angry but she is totally honest with me about it and i appreciate that so much however, my sanity and rest time is important as well. Iknow she's trying. i think i'm going to start keeping a log, asking every morning how she slept, if she nursed and keep track of what happens here during the day to see if there is any connection. she's also getting teeth which throws another wrench into the mix. thanks for all the support ladies. sometimes my only sanity comes from chatting with you all.