momof4...ya know, that's exactly what hubby said! She's only 3 months and quite sick, so I didn't press for details. I will give it a bit of time and then start asking. I've already started advertising and I'm thinking I want another baby myself, so timing may be great as I will be down to only one f/t dcg if she leaves. It would have been nice to know what was going on at home seeing as I have been sending home daily reports and sending mssgs during the day telling them how miserable their daughter was!