Need Advice!

[Spixie33]

That is a tough one. Babies can be easier to care for in some ways but you also have to carry them constantly and feeding them while holding them etc would tie up your hands. I think not having the use of my hands to help other kids would a tough one.
I have pretty active dcks and they always need something. I can't imagine how it would fit with my group personally. It would be hard to look after the kids, read stories, do crafts, prep meals etc all while having a baby who is unpredictable in terms of when they would cry etc. I would probably need a swing to get some free time and I don't think I would be willing to add a swing to my set up/house and have it take up so much room.
It is too bad that the mom can't take the mat leave in this case because the child will grow up so fast and the first year really is amazing to see.
Good luck with what you decide.
Just keep in mind that you are probably going to be potty training those 22 month olds soon and you will be pretty busy!!