hi and welcome to the forum..... I would have a talk with the parents and let them know he needs to be on your schedule ....I would give it to them in writing....I would not be giving bottles ....sippy cup only...and finger foods on the tray ....if he's hungry he'll eat....I would start putting him down earlier by 5 or 10 minutes every morning till you have him napping at 8 or 815 for about 30 mins only then he has lots of time till the afternoon nap at 12:30 (or when ever you do your aft naps) put him in bed with his comfort item if he has one, and put a fan on outside the door and walk away .....no rocking or back rubbing......he'll scream for the first week or so but then he"ll figure it out.....but I would for sure tell the parents they need to stop the rocking and get rid of the bottle so that its consistant at both places and you will see results much faster ......I would be mad if I gave my schedule to parents as well as some things to do to prepare their child for group care and they disregarded it.......