Need opinions and ideas please(new dcb on own schedule)

[Crayola kiddies]

Try to impress upon mom that by rubbing his back at home she is just making it harder on him because he is expecting you to do it and its confusing him..... Generally if you put the spin on it that its him she is affecting (which is the truth) she will do the same at home. But if she won't then it will just take longer and he will eventually learn going to sleep at your house is different then going to sleep at home ......

[meaganb3]

Try to impress upon mom that by rubbing his back at home she is just making it harder on him because he is expecting you to do it and its confusing him..... Generally if you put the spin on it that its him she is affecting (which is the truth) she will do the same at home. But if she won't then it will just take longer and he will eventually learn going to sleep at your house is different then going to sleep at home ......

OK thanks, what would you say to mom and dad though? I know he is there first but the easier we can get him adjusted the better.
And in the situation they dont stop and I continue to just lie him down to CIO what about his eating? He is soo upset when i bring him back to the play room after crying for 2 hours