I here ya, I have one 3 y.o. girl that is quite the attitude little lady and there has been days of getting down to my last nerve. She actually made me shout at her infront of all the others... hey I'm not proud this is just how far she got me. I told the parents I did, I felt bad but had no shame sharing with them. She tells them everything that is going on anyhow, she is very smart. My solution after that episode was just to put her away in ''time-out'', and she was there often. These days are not so bad. Yes she is stressful, but only have until the summer where then she'll start school and wont be in my care anymore so... I'll just suck it up