Need advice on how to deal with a 'pee' issue

[kidlove]

he goes to school? has mom asked teacher if anything has shown up in the washrooms at school? None the less, sounds to me like he deserves NO privacy and as someone else suggested, he MUST sit to pee as well. If I were you I would find a way to lock the bathroom door if possible and make him ask to use the toilet, then accompany him like a baby, have him sit, push his privates down and go potty, then direct him step by step to flush and wash proper. Sounds like a stinker....I personally would need to take a minute to count my stress level down before approaching a situation like that! I would be furious!