Need advice on how to deal with a 'pee' issue

[Momof4]

Of course he doesn't do it at home... they NEVER do it at home! .........I would start treating him like a toilet training child again. He has to ask to go to the bathroom and you can go with him to make sure he pee's in the toilet. He doesn't get that independance back until he proves he can be a big boy.

I would also tell mom that you just can't have that kind of un sanitary behaviour. You'll give him a few weeks.. days... whichever you prefer... to turn it around and if he can't then he's out.

I agree and this is exactly what I would do. My son had ADHD and never behaved this way ANYWHERE when he was a child and he was so easily distracted. But he learned cleanliness and manners and that he was expected to use them everywhere at all times. This boy's Mom needs to teach him the same things. Sorry you have to police a boy of that age as if he is a toddler! My 5year old grandson won't even let anybody in the bathroom with him because he likes his privacy so hope that isn't a problem for you.

[MonkeyPrincess]

... My 5year old grandson won't even let anybody in the bathroom with him because he likes his privacy so hope that isn't a problem for you.

No it's not really a problem because i warned him that if he didn't stop peeing on the floors and walls, then he will not be able to go by himself, and i will have to go with him every time. He has not changed his ways, so i follow through on my warning. Yes, it really does suck that i have to police a school age child that should have good washroom habits. Fortunately for me, my son is fine in the bathroom, and my daughter and 18 month DCG are still in diapers, so i can spare 2 minutes to stay with the boy in the washroom. It really sucks that i have to do this but hey, gotta do what i gotta do.