''Discipline'' the child when parents are there ?

[mimi]

Reggio, it is a Big rule in my daycare not to touch doors even if an older child wants to help by holding door open when we go outside. I remind them only Mimi can touch the doors. You are correct, it is the parents who need the discipline as well. This little guy with the diapers is now in pull ups because I said he wasn't to wear diapers here any longer and training must commence. At pick up he told his mom he peed in his pull ups to wish she told him that was perfectly o.k. I told her no, it is not o.k. If you allow it, then the pull ups become a diaper substitute. She didn't like me telling her that, but too bad. It is that attitude that has delayed his training!

[DisneyPrincess]

OMG LADIES THIS MORNING TOTALLY BACKFIRED ON ME ; the 3 y.o. girl was rude to her mother this morning, I SAID : REMEMBER WHAT WE TALKED ABOUT YESTURDAY, WE STAY NICE TO MOMMY IN THE MORNING.. the brat started crying, her mom was shocked when I told her my new way of ''no negativity'' and its been months that I try so hard with her and you know what, yesturday went great !! WELL AFTER A LONG ARGUMENT THAT ITS NORMAL FOR HER TO ACT THAT WAY AND SHE IS JUST EXPRESSING HERSELF AND MOTHER FEELS GUILTY SO... SHE DIDNT AGREE WITH ME, ALTHOUGH SHE ONLY HAD A FEW MONTHS LEFT SHE JUST GAVE ME HER 2 WEEKS NOTICE !!!!!

I SAID FINE ITS TOO BAD YOU FEEL THAT WAY, IVE BEEN TRYING SO HARD TO HELP AND UNDERSTAND HER AND.... YOU KNOW WHAT I ACCEPT YOUR TWO WEEKS NOTICE IN WRITING THEN.

IM FUMMMIIINNNNGGGG !!!