Such a difference in drop offs

[kidlove]

I have experienced very different reactions from kiddos with Mom vs Dad before, pay close attention to how she is when she is with one vs the other, the answer might be clear as day, she could have a deeper connection to dad, or have more separation issues due to his abnormal work schedule. either way, you may need to come to the conclusion of only Mom dropping off and maybe dad can pick up on his days off? if you pay close attention to her behavior with each parent and talk to the parents about it, you may be able to figure things out quite quickly. Good Luck!

[fruitloop]

I have experienced very different reactions from kiddos with Mom vs Dad before, pay close attention to how she is when she is with one vs the other, the answer might be clear as day, she could have a deeper connection to dad, or have more separation issues due to his abnormal work schedule. either way, you may need to come to the conclusion of only Mom dropping off and maybe dad can pick up on his days off? if you pay close attention to her behavior with each parent and talk to the parents about it, you may be able to figure things out quite quickly. Good Luck!

This is what I'm thinking...

She cries off and on all day...aside from nap time. It's a pissed off cry. She is mad to be here. She was here for 2 days in a row with mom dropping off and she did fantastic! Then she was off for a week because she was having some poop issues. She is back this week with dad dropping off and it has not been good like the first 2 days. She is p/t...here 3 days/week (T,Th,F). I'm hoping when dad goes back to work she will be better. If she is then I will be requesting mom do drop offs.