thanks for the backup girls, I knew you all would understand. i know everyone has a right to see things how they want, and I know everyone chooses to do things differently, i guess thats what makes life so darn interesting.....and I am for the most part fine with people living THEIR life as they see fit, but I get so upset when their lives intertwine with mine and affect the way I believe things should be done. having the day care for years i have learned first hand, how to take the best precautions and have learned first hand, how fast viruses can spread, and how easy. I am always on guard whether on the clock or not, i not only have my own families health in the back of my mind, but being a daycare provider I carry a communal responsibility to not promote the spread of illness. That being said, I grately appreciate the understanding and backup, sometimes I feel people like me are few and far between...then i sign on here and an in a world of many just the same as me...or close enough!