the kind of parent that allows their child to decide whether or not to get dressed in the am is the kind of parent who doesn't want to deal with anything that early in the am. If you don't want them in their pj's just inform parents that children are expected to show up "ready for the day" that includes, dressed and diaper changed.....if you want, you could have them bring clothes for the kids to get dressed at your house, I do that for a 6:30 drop off, it's just too early for the little one. But either way, I think it's crazy that parents allow their children to make the choices in life, IMO...that's lazy parenting!