Dealing with relatives kids.

[mom-in-alberta]

I find it very hard to "turn it off" around other kids. I have been known to say "hey you, knock it off" or similar to strangers children. However, I REALLY try not to parent my nephews/ friends kids, etc. Mostly because people, as a rule, do not like to be told that they are doing it wrong. My sister-in-law often asks me for advice (I would like to think that it's because she respects my parenting) and I will give it, gently worded if need be.
But in this case, YOU WERE IN THE RIGHT!!! Seriously, she's tugging on Gramma's arm and they say nothing???? RUDE. How would little missy feel if she injured her Gramma?