there is absolutely no winner in this situation. unfortunately you have been put in the middle. If you cant accommodate the mothers hours, she needs to find someone else. I didnt realize that it was illegal for an 11 yr old to watch a 6 yr old so cant comment there. I would agree that you need to meet with both of them and be firm in that you expect them tobehave like adults and not put you in the middle of their dispute. Just remember when either of them tell you something, you are only hearing what they want you to hear to gain your support for their side. I dont know how close friends you are but I think I would remove myself from the situation and elminate the caregiver portion of your relationship and be a supportive friend.

































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