I have a deposit of 1 week and i also have a cheque for monday. She would have been fine if I hadnt said that full payment was due, thats what pissed her off. The email was a riot with all the CAPITAL LETTERS lol. I copied dad on my reply because i think he has cooler head but we'll see.

If they dont come back should I try and deposit the cheque that I have on file for Monday? There would be a surplus to what is actually owing but I could send them the difference in the mail.

Oh boy Other Mummy did i ever want to tell her to hit the road LOL. I wont allow her to make me stoop to that level.

I totally understand her situation which is why I offered to help. I know people who might be interested in taking her but I wont be sharing that information now. She is allowed to be disappointed but she needs to learn to act like an adult. Its never easy when there is a termination but i'm willing to be that she wouldnt react this way if a daycare centre was giving her notice. She has no respect for me and I've known that from the beginning.