Based on what you are saying, something doesn't seem completely right about this!! It may be a difficult conversation, but I think it needs to be discussed with mom and dad. It's possible that they have already noticed. It's one thing for him to have been "babied" at home. That may mean that he doesn't WANT to hold a cup/spoon, feed himself, entertain himself, etc. But if you feel that at two years old he is UNABLE to do these things, that is an issue. You mentioned he has started talking... how is his speech? At 2 1/2, going on 3, he should be stringing words together ("J have cup?"), not just beginning single words. And the eye-rolling is of concern to me. Have you seen any repetitive behaviour with his hands or head? Or rocking/ banging various body parts? Does he make eye contact, and seem to make an emotional connection with you or any other people? If you have other children in your care, how does he interact with them?