It's interesting to see how far we've come as providers. A year ago I don't think I would've had the backbone or good sense to send the child away. I would've suggested it, but if I got any push back I would have just accepted the child and hoped for the best. Now, I passed him the papertowels, his box of wipes, a bag for clothes, a bag for garbage and stood 4 feet back. Thank goodness I have an enclosed enterance way so the other little one in my care wasn't exposed. And I had the next drop off come in the back door... just to be safe.