Pushing and hitting

[mimi]

I think it is more about knowing the meaning of sorry. If one of my kids is unkind to another, I point out (age appropriate) to the offender that daycare friend is sad, crying etc. because you hit, took toy away etc. and then I ask (not force) offender to give a hug to help dcfriend feel better. If the empathy attempt doesn't work, I do continue the empathy lesson with a time out.
If your dcg continues, I would remove her from the situation and tell her when she does not hit she can join the others,