Thanks playfelt...I will think about this as well. It is true, none of the kids want to play with him...they cringe when he comes near. He is not a bad kid...not mean, just impulsive and very annoying to the other kids. Actually, thinking about it, he mainly does the toy snatching with the other boys. Dcg stays well away from him and doesn't even want to sit beside him, but he never steals from her...she is very quiet and polite, but she must be standing her ground in some way. My daughter too is hardly ever the victim in these exchanges. Maybe the girls are better at seeing it coming and avoiding...not sure.