Parents say how long child naps?

[Skysue]

I have had the same issues and I have a parent of a 2 year old that says they don't want him to nap, he has become sooo agressive and abusive and I know it's due to being tired. At 10 months that is down right ridiculas?

I think parents are just being selfish as they just want there time to themselves. My little one was in home daycare and shen napped 2 -3 hours and never had a problem going down at night. Only when she was teething.

I have aother parents that put there little one down to sleep at 5:30pm and he is up at 6am. He was 10 months when he started in my care and he only slept one hour. I finally got him down to two hours but it was not fun getting there. Most days for 6 months I had no break. are days are long and we deserve a break!

Get some info on baby nap schedules for a 10 month old and present it to your parents. I think it say they should be getting 14 hours a day!

Good luck!

[mom-in-alberta]

I had this EXACT scenario occur a couple of months ago. This was one of my part-timers, who was a little under 18 months at the time.
Sweet little girl, I would take 5 more of her if I could find them!! But when she was tired, she was MISERABLE. Dad would drop her off in the morning and ask that I not put her down, or if I did, only for half an hour!!! Are you kidding?? I discovered one morning when I called at 9:45am (to see where they were, as we had been expecting them for some time), that she was still sleeping! Uh, there's your problem. Let her sleep til 10 o'clock, of course she isn't going down until 11 at night.
The first day, I did wake her up a little early (although she had longer than 30 min) and it was awful. After that, I would let her sleep as long as she needed. I freely admit that I fibbed, and said "Oh yeah, I woke her up." Her time here was very infrequent, and I doubt I did any damage in the long run!
Had she been a full timer, or a regular part-timer, I would probably have discussed it with the parents. I wouldn't have felt right about being dishonest on an on-going basis. I would have discussed my personal opinion on the matter, as well as our "everyone has quiet time" policy. Children under 3 WILL stay in the playpen/crib/cot from 1-3.
Chances are, she is having some "reaction" to the new childcare situation. Mom and dad are tired, and don't want to deal with it. The easiest person to take this out on? YOU, unfortunately.

[FS2011]

Wow!! Ok I have a 12 month old that sleeps 2-3 times a day with an early bedtime. She gets 3-5 hours of nap time daily plus bed at 7:30. These parents are probably not even realizing thier child is over tired and there for not going to bed well.
I'd let the child sleep and act as if you woke her up, let it go a while then ask how bed time is going? If parent is still having challenges, show you are concerned and simply say...could she be over tired or maybe missing her parents etc etc offer solutions. Keep up the good work, don't let parents make your rules.

[fruitloop]

Parents have no say in how long a child naps here for. My quiet/nap time is from 1 - 3 everyday...no exceptions!

[Emilys4Guppies]

I also have a quiet/nap time. We all need the downtime to regroup for the afternoon. My naptime is from 12pm-2pm and is a non-negotiable term of care.

[playfelt]

One of the reasons I stopped doing daily journals for parents was because I almost felt like how long the child slept was my business. If they didn't bring the child tired they wouldn't have needed a three hour nap. Why should I be the one that has to put up with the crankiness - they can do in the evening. By the weekend parents are reminded how consistency makes for good days and nights for all of us.

[Sandbox Sally]

I have been reading up on baby/toddler sleep recently, as my dck's mom asked me to curb her naps. I have been reading that babies and toddlers need 10-13 hours per 24 hour span. Of course, like adults, little guys are all different. However, a 2 hour nap during the day should not be affecting the 10 month old's nighttime sleep. If a 10 month old is sleeping at your house for two hours, she clearly NEEDS it.

Are the parents letting her sleep late at home? 6am is not an uncommon wake time for babies and toddlers. Are they trying to put her to bed too early to get their own free time? These are questions I would ask (maybe not put exactly that way...lol). We need to work in conjunction with parents. A well oiled machine is the goal here.

As with the other parents, I fibbed a bit and told them that she was only sleeping for two hours, but actually let her sleep until she woke naturally, which was always 2.5 hrs or so. And...miraculously, she was sleeping better at night!

There is a mandatory two hour rest time in my day home, end of.