Lol you know I kinda feel like a bad parent right now lol.... (but that said I have made arragements wit these families in advance) ds son goes in a play date every sunday and as his lunch with them, and then goes to another play date from there for another 4 hours so thanks to these great moms I get a day off each week, He used to go to a paid caregiver, but I have since found this option for him.