Oh gosh I totally understand! This must be an all husbands thing! My hubby is so noisy during nap it drives me crazy! He will throw pants in the dryer(our dryer is upstairs) during nap. He will let the dog upstairs during nap. He leave dishes all throughout the house. He slams doors turns on lights, talks his normal loud voice in the upstairs hall during nap. It drives me crazy! These men don't seem to understand that nap is our only break, and if the kids wake up from a short nap, they are cranky. It is frustrating, and I much prefer when he's gone to work. The house is cleaner and things get done my way! And, for heaven's sake, the house is quiet during nap!!