This little one is lucky to have a caring provider as yourself who doesn't chose the easy route by offering packaged food. I would continue to serve her the same meals as the other children. To give in to her wants does not satify her need for nutricious food. She will learn that her hungry tummy is her responsibility to fill and your offerings are the only option and she has the encouragement of seeing the other kids eating their meals. Do not give in. Unfortunately it sounds like your daycare is the only one supplying the nutrients she needs.