But I have a daycare girl (who is 2) that won't eat my homemade items! I'm not a horrible cook haha ! Her Mom says she eats TONS at home but its hotdogs, Kraft dinner, granola bars, bear paws, etc. I don't want to serve those things here, or at least in moderation...
I have a brother and sister that are the same here. The sister who is 4 is worse. Keep serving what you are and eventually the girl will eat.

Yesterday, I made Whole wheat carrot cake pancakes, the boy ate everything I gave him and she ate a whole pancake. It is the most either one of them have eaten since they started at the beginning of the month.

Like treeholm, I don't stress about what they eat, the kid either eat at the set mealtimes or they don't and are asked not to complain, they will learn eventually.