So yesterday was my first day and I posted about wanting to term a family just because the b&a is so much work. I was so close to doing it and realized that I will give it a few more days and see how it goes. I don't think I am being fair to me or the family. I am new at this and part of my frustration is my learning curve and that this is a hard job. Got called a "babysitter" yesterday which was nice, heh heh. Wish me luck.