Honestly @ 30 we shouldn't be expecting as much--We are all past the lookit what my bff did for me stage..or at least we should be, no?? I mean I turned 30 last year and my husband made me dinner at home and we watched a movie..So planing a dinner with close friends is something I would do...and if she isnt thankful then how much of a friend is she? (not trying to be mean but ijs)