the 3 yo had the tantrum. If we had been in the safety of the daycare there would be no issues. The issue is I feel the pickup and drop off are unsafe e.g going in the community with so many kids without having trust etc devloped. What I am saying is if we didn't have the school run we would not have to of gone out if he was out of sorts. Could have waited until later in the morning. Am I making sense? I don't have an issue with kids having tantrums but his running off on me is an issue and it puts the other kids at risk.