I was thinking about that as well skysue. I don't know anyone but the mom might.

update- the mom texted me to ask how things were going. I said this morning was rough for 3 yo and we should chat tonight. I am going to talk to her about my concerns and also the b&a to see if she knows someone. I hadn't made up my mind, I just felt stuck like there weren't other options other than terming. If the pick up/drop off can be done by someone else there would be few issues.