Wow! Once again, I didn't ask for opinions, I didn't ask to be judged. I asked for some craft ideas. We all run our business's differently. Different parents look for different things. Thank you for clarifying what Judy's off handed comment refered to. It's unfortunate that she throws her opinions out there, but is not will to debate anything.

I'm not here to defend my business or how I run my dayhome.

however, I will tell all of you that I agree... I don't think it's our job to do a craft or card for a bday. I think it is much better when dad sits down with the kids to complete the work. I also agree that I don't think it's right to "speak through the child". I find it underhanded and sneaky too.

But...

I like to help people out when I can. As I said in my origional post... I had a slow day today. I was excited to do something above and beyond for someone else. You know... you hear about people doing things like buying the person behind them in the tim's drive through a coffee. Do they buy everyone behind them a coffee? Does the person 3 cars back get upset that their coffee wasn't paid for?

It's not like I'm putting up a sign on my front lawn "WILL MAKE CARDS FOR MOM"S BDAY" It's not like the 3 year old told the 2 year old and the 2 year old went home and told mom the unfair thing the provider did today

I appreciate those of you who had feedback, and backed it up. I would have much prefered if it came with a clever craft idea as that's what I origionaly asked for.