Same here... I had picky eaters before, but not all were picky at the same time. At least I felt someone appreciated my cooking... For the picky eaters I have done what the other ladies had said. No second options and they have to wait until their next meal and eat when they are really hungry. They all have improved, but for some of them it has taken months until they feel comfortable eating "new" foods. I try to add some of their favorites foods in our menu, too (as long as is not junk food).