So my sister in law texted me at 10:30 last night tellin me her boys would not be there first thing in the morning. That was fine.. 10:30 comes and she knows that's quite time. She tells me her ex husband is going to bring the kids after he has a shower. I ask her if he can hold off til 12 because I don't want to mess up the routine for the other children. ( her kids are really loud and don't listen well and would wake up the other kids) she says that he might have an appointment so she's doesn't know if that can work. So I said okay bring them but just in the future please drop them off before 10:30 or after 12 to avoid messing with the routine. Then she says well see!! I asked her what she ment and she said " well we will see what he decides to do"
People need to understand its not just their kids I'm caring for! I'm not about to make other kids cranking all day just because you ex husband wanted to sleep in!!
What would you do??