How old is the child ??? I do have that in my policy as well, even if its grandparents and I do mention to parents to warn them not to be taken aback about it, its just for the safety of their children and they totally agree.
Although, when it happen to me, twice, both kids were 3 years old going on 4. It was kidda clear who they were and the kids ran to Grandma all happy !! So yes its a weird situation to be in. In my case, it was very obvious so .... I didnt ask for I.D.
I had one 1 y.o. who's grandma came to get her and she was sure she wanted to go to her but I had met the grandmother with dad in the morning !
I do have a 9 month old and if Grandma would show up, I will ask for I.D. then !
Its not a comfy situation but... its safety ! And Grandparents are not very tactful with us, they are very direct and not shy to tell the truth in your face right![]()