3 yo and pooping in diaper still

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To Sunnydays - I think a difference in the case of the three year old is that he is totally aware of the need to poop and wants to do it right away but on his terms which are no longer acceptable. In the case of your daughter it sounds more like she hasn't gotten to the point of knowing when she is pooping till it is too late to do anything about it and that is still acceptable for her age.