one of my part time family has some family over for a visit. they have been there for 2 months.... and will be there of at least 2 more months. Since then, I maybe saw the parents 2 or 3 times.... maybe. Now I need to talk to the parents because I need to tell them that I'll be going in maternity leave in june. I need to tell them about upcomming appointments and tell them that i've been having a really hard time with her daughter... ( frequent accident during nap, trowing toys, pushing, hitting, not listenning.......... )

Now, should I just send a letter home... or should i tell the visiting family members that i need to see the parents ( they are having a hard time sending messages home...)

I feel trapped in this situation and I really hate it