Well, turned out mom came and picked up the little girl. Very glad we had a 30 minutes talk... and i understood ALOT of things..... they are 3 families living in the same house right now... so little Judy doesn't get to sleep in her room and often change bedroom during the week... usualy that's when we get accident in the dayhome

at pick up, she didn't even want to leave with mommy.... Mom actualy walked out the door and the little girl turned around, looked at me and said : mommy is gone.... and went play with my husband and my son?!?!?!

her mom came back in heartbroken... I guess lots is happening at home and she enjoys the ''calm'' and the routine of dayhome so much she doesn't want to leave...

Any advice on what I should do except give her lots of love and affection while she is here? And obviously, stick to my routine so she has something stable in her life?