Yeah I just seem to have very anxious babies haha. My first born was a premie at 34 weeks but I made it to the end with my second. Had to take it eay hwoever cause labor had started at 6 months. So it does not mean I WILL have problems with the 3rd one but there is a chance. ANyhoo That is why I am asking the questions now as I want to be prepared and be able to let my parents know what they can expect and avoid as much as possible loosing them. They are ALL SO GREAT and I LOVE their kids.

I think I will get in touch wiht EI just to see and maybe now that I have a more of a stable revenu I would be able to put more asside myself for a Nanny or what not... Just hope I don't owe an arm and a leg to CRA for taxes on top of everything haha.

Thanks for your advice ladies !!